{"id":319,"date":"2010-11-19T03:37:21","date_gmt":"2010-11-19T03:37:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/?p=319"},"modified":"2010-11-19T03:37:21","modified_gmt":"2010-11-19T03:37:21","slug":"vinnare-eller-forlorare-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/?p=319","title":{"rendered":"Vinnare eller f\u00f6rlorare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Vinnaren <\/em>\u00e4r en m\u00e4nniska vars f\u00f6rm\u00e5ga att l\u00f6sa problemet \u00e4r st\u00f6rre \u00e4n sj\u00e4lva problemet, medan f\u00f6rloraren \u00e4r en m\u00e4nniska vars problem \u00e4r st\u00f6rre \u00e4n f\u00f6rm\u00e5gan att l\u00f6sa det. <em>F\u00f6rloraren <\/em>kan ha en f\u00f6rm\u00e5ga som \u00f6verstiger vinnarens. Men hon har ocks\u00e5 problem som \u00e4r mycket st\u00f6rre att \u00f6vervinna. Skillnaden mellan vinnare och f\u00f6rlorare \u00e4r att vinnare g\u00f6r saker som f\u00f6rlorare \u00f6nskar g\u00f6ra, men inte g\u00f6r. F\u00f6r att bli en vinnare m\u00e5ste man vilja f\u00f6r\u00e4ndra och engagera sig f\u00f6r\u00e4ndringsarbetet. Man beh\u00f6ver ha <em>m\u00e5l <\/em>att str\u00e4va mot, och man beh\u00f6ver utveckla en handlingsplan och tidsplan f\u00f6r sitt f\u00f6r\u00e4ndringsarbete. Utan <em>sj\u00e4lvdisciplin <\/em>och <em>t\u00e5lamod <\/em>n\u00e5r man inte m\u00e5let.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00e4nner du dig intr\u00e4ngd i ett h\u00f6rn utan m\u00f6jlighet att r\u00f6ra dig? \u00c4r du inl\u00e5st i dig sj\u00e4lv? Det \u00e4r l\u00e4ttare att se att andra l\u00e5ser in dig, \u00e4n att se att du g\u00f6r det sj\u00e4lv. Att se att man sj\u00e4lv \u00e4r en del av sitt problem kr\u00e4ver <em>mod<\/em>. Om du \u00e4r en m\u00e4nniska som st\u00e4ndigt f\u00e5r \u201dcitroner\u201d beh\u00f6ver du l\u00e4ra dig att g\u00f6ra citronsaft. Varje besv\u00e4rlig situation, och varje besv\u00e4rlig m\u00e4nniska, kan man l\u00e4ra sig n\u00e5got av. I st\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att utbrista \u201dinte nu igen\u201d kan du st\u00e4lla dig fr\u00e5gan: \u201dVad kan jag l\u00e4ra mig av detta?\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Trevlig helg!<br \/>\n<em>Gunilla Brattberg<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vinnaren \u00e4r en m\u00e4nniska vars f\u00f6rm\u00e5ga att l\u00f6sa problemet \u00e4r st\u00f6rre \u00e4n sj\u00e4lva problemet, medan f\u00f6rloraren \u00e4r en m\u00e4nniska vars problem \u00e4r st\u00f6rre \u00e4n f\u00f6rm\u00e5gan att l\u00f6sa det. F\u00f6rloraren kan ha en f\u00f6rm\u00e5ga som \u00f6verstiger vinnarens. Men hon har ocks\u00e5 problem som \u00e4r mycket st\u00f6rre att \u00f6vervinna. Skillnaden mellan vinnare och f\u00f6rlorare \u00e4r att vinnare<br \/><a class=\"moretag\" href=\"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/?p=319\">L\u00e4s mer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[85,184,201,280,326,368],"class_list":["post-319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-levande-ord","tag-forlorare","tag-mal","tag-mod","tag-sjalvdisciplin","tag-talamod","tag-vinnare"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/319","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=319"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/319\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=319"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=319"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.varkstaden.se\/blogg\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=319"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}